She dumped you or you dumped her (usually it’s the former, not the latter) and now you want her back. You scour the internet looking for products and there is always someone willing to relieve you of $50 or $100 or even more than that. Heck, I’ll set up a payment processor if you’re looking to give money away – I’ll take it! Because, that’s what you’re doing – by pursuing an ex you’re GIVING MONEY AWAY. You’ve just gotten the “let’s be friends” or “I need space” speech and you’re reeling.

You’ve just gotten the “let’s be friends” or “I need space” speech and you’re reeling. In fact, that happened to one of my students. She cried and wailed as she told him how much she loved him but that she thought they needed “space away from each other”, (yeah, “real love” there). He was fooled by this as this incident is what brought him to my teachings because he actually fell for her line and thought that after some time away she’d realize that they were meant to be together.

You see guys, our ego doesn’t want to believe that she could actually flush us down the toilet – so it protects itself by shelling out $125 to internet guru du jour that is going to tell us how to get her back. When a woman decides to leave – as in the case of my student – it’s a long process the guy doesn’t pick up on until it’s too late and the Hollywood drama is playing out in front of him. She will slowly lose feelings and then build resentment until she’s sure of her decision.

Expect to say “what’s the matter honey” a million times over the course of your 40 years together as she wistfully looks out the window wishing for the stud guy she really wanted while you two were apart – but couldn’t land. She will slowly lose feelings and then build resentment until she’s sure of her decision. You’ve just gotten the “let’s be friends” or “I need space” speech and you’re reeling. Remember guys, one chance, per woman, per lifetime. Ugh. Fat chance!